Have you ever had IN-Laws that you just love to hate them? Well I do but not all my IN-Laws are bad just Steven's parents and sister and her kids. the rest of them pretty much keep to them selves. But Steven's step mom and sister and her oldest daughter are what I would call drama queens they always have to start problems between family members or they talk about people behind their backs and then they are nice to your face. Let me tell you something I have never in my life had to deal with so much drama then I have dealt with in the past 12 year well since Steven and I have been together. I'm to a point in my life where I'm done dealing with it and enough is enough and I have decided to band them from my life and my children's life. By doing this I won't be hurting anyone if that question came to your mind. Because his parents never really cared about my children they maybe see them once a year and they live only 2-3 min away from us. The only grand children they love and care about is his sister's 3 kids and the reason I say this is because they have a total of 12-13 grand children and they treat all of them the same besides his sister's kids they get ex-treatment. It's kind of childish for me to think this way but dealing with what I have had to deal with makes me feel this way. I've had to put up with so much like getting my car egged, having a 13 year old to tell me to F**K OFF, spreading stories about Steven and me. I could go on and on about shit that has been done or said not only to me but to other family members as well they have been hurt by them also. When we stand up for our selves we usually get made out to be the bad guy. Well I'm tired of being the bad guy.
Thursday, March 13, 2008
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Stacy,
They sound more like outlaws. I say as long as it doesn't hurt your husband, stay away. If it hurts them, let them come to you with the issue. But until then, let the evil step mother stew in her own juices.
BUT, and I'm not say you're doing this, don't go out of your way to be mean either.
I know where you are coming from with all that, remember I have known his family longer then you and boy can they stir the pot. I don't understand why any of you have anything to do with them.
Remember, because of their lies we did not become friends until years later. We could have been hanging out a heck of a lot longer and I could have been there when the girls were born. Dang it now I getting mad. Just remember to love thy nieghbor even if they are a pain in the butt:) Love ya my Stacy Wacy :)
Hey, Stacy...I don't think you're a bad girl even if you decide to stay away from them. Toxic people are really dangerous for our own serenity.
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